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#21 john_s

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 04:54 PM

hmm think theres a vey slim chancof thr being any single female vx owners living near the single male vx owners but I can see the point.


Yeah, but travelling shouldn't be a problem... perhaps excepting if it's all motorway.

#22 Yellow_or_black?

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 05:52 PM

Well I think I may be single very soon.. so feel free to stick pictures up for me to perv on browse through.

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:o What? I thought you were loved up to the hilt?

*Cough* - photo time ;)

#23 LY_Scott

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 07:42 PM

lol, yeh things are a touch rocky atm. we've had a hellish couple of last weeks. think thats what prompted my I'm selling up thread. Hopefully we can work through it and sort things out.

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 08:25 PM

I'm 22 and single. lol

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 08:42 PM

You're exactly how I imagined you Scott :) I'm sure you'll work it out - all relationships have their downs to have their ups. Don't make any rash decisions - breath deeply and ride the storm. I'm sure everything will be fine - you seem so in love. ian: you know what to do... :D

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 08:53 PM

ian: you know what to do... :D


Dont know what your talking about. lol

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 08:57 PM

You're exactly how I imagined you Scott :) I'm sure you'll work it out - all relationships have their downs to have their ups. Don't make any rash decisions - breath deeply and ride the storm. I'm sure everything will be fine - you seem so in love.


You seem to have taken on the job of .orgs resident Agony Aunt - perhaps the mods could give you your own board entitled 'Dear Y-O-B'


Signed.........

Impressed of Cheshire :lol:

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 09:00 PM

:lol: I'm quite liking that idea...

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 09:04 PM

She's a looker Scott thumbsup ... go buy her some *flowers and say your sorry before you do something stupid thumbsup
















Gawd thats soo gay from me - what i meant was, have make up sex and pull her hair really hard on the in stroke, that'll teach her not to answer back next time ;) thumbsup

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 09:05 PM

You have turned gay Richy *cough* :rolleyes: :P

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 09:06 PM

perhaps the mods could give you your own board entitled 'Dear Y-O-B'


Dear YOB

I have this strange burning sensation when i pee........

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 09:06 PM

Well, stop trying to set your willy on fire then :rolleyes:

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 09:10 PM

You have turned gay Richy *cough* :rolleyes: :P


I feel it's my duty to as a iccle red sports car owner to stand up for the gay man, to be an icon, a shining light, i want men everywher to know that its ok to wear pink sweaters, and you can own more than five hair products..... ahhh what the hell i'm not fooling anyone......

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 09:20 PM

Dear YOB.. I keep getting strange phone calls from a man who thinks my Wife works for the local coastguard....... Whenever I answer the phone he always asks "Is the coast clear Yet?" What should I do? Signed Concerned of Merseyside.

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 09:24 PM

:lol: :lol:

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 09:29 PM

You're exactly how I imagined you Scott :) I'm sure you'll work it out - all relationships have their downs to have their ups. Don't make any rash decisions - breath deeply and ride the storm. I'm sure everything will be fine - you seem so in love.

ian: you know what to do... :D


Thanks H, I'm trying. She's going through something just now and is being really hard on me and doing alot of disappearing and stuff. I'm trying to hold it together but its hard. You can imagine what most of my friends are saying I should do. To be honest I'm sick of their opinions and I've swapped to a differnt phone so I don't have to hear it right now. Its hard enough without all that. She's had a lot of problems in her life and one of the things I promised her a long time ago was to stick by her no matter what and never abandon her. I keep my promises. But its taking alot out of me.

Richy, you the man lol. :lol:

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 09:34 PM

You're exactly how I imagined you Scott :) I'm sure you'll work it out - all relationships have their downs to have their ups. Don't make any rash decisions - breath deeply and ride the storm. I'm sure everything will be fine - you seem so in love.

ian: you know what to do... :D


Thanks H, I'm trying. She's going through something just now and is being really hard on me and doing alot of disappearing and stuff. I'm trying to hold it together but its hard. You can imagine what most of my friends are saying I should do. To be honest I'm sick of their opinions and I've swapped to a differnt phone so I don't have to hear it right now. Its hard enough without all that. She's had a lot of problems in her life and one of the things I promised her a long time ago was to stick by her no matter what and never abandon her. I keep my promises. But its taking alot out of me.

Richy, you the man lol. :lol:

Scott.


wow what a post! Good on you thumbsup Takes a lot to hang on in there

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 09:46 PM

I know it's hard having enough strength for two, particularly on an ongoing basis, but grit your teeth. Sounds like she really needs you right now, and however much she's hitting out at you - I'm sure fundamentally you know it's not aimed at you. We often hurt the ones we love as a cry for help: push them and push them and push them, desperately willing them to pick us up and look after us. It's much more difficult to ask for help/attention/patience/understanding/sympathy/care/safety. Good for you for silencing the detractors. Your friends are playing the big I am - it's not manly is it to put up with sh*t from a woman; that's doormat territory isn't it (note irony). However, it takes a real man to put their arms around someone, and shelter and protect them (literally and/or metaphorically) when they're doing everything they can to push you off. Cling on - if she's as wonderful as you say she is, when the storms over - she will love you even more and recognise what a gem she holds in her hands. And from what you've said about her and your relationship, I don't think you want to be letting her/this slip through your fingers. It's just another facet to your relationship: a somewhat scratched one, but not all the facets can be shiny... H

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Posted 28 July 2008 - 10:42 PM

You're exactly how I imagined you Scott :) I'm sure you'll work it out - all relationships have their downs to have their ups. Don't make any rash decisions - breath deeply and ride the storm. I'm sure everything will be fine - you seem so in love.

ian: you know what to do... :D


Thanks H, I'm trying. She's going through something just now and is being really hard on me and doing alot of disappearing and stuff. I'm trying to hold it together but its hard. You can imagine what most of my friends are saying I should do. To be honest I'm sick of their opinions and I've swapped to a differnt phone so I don't have to hear it right now. Its hard enough without all that. She's had a lot of problems in her life and one of the things I promised her a long time ago was to stick by her no matter what and never abandon her. I keep my promises. But its taking alot out of me.

Richy, you the man lol. :lol:

Scott.


Awwww.....bless shes a very lucky lady, stuff your mates they will realise soon what its all about. You've got to do what you thinks right! let us know if we can do anything!

You both look great by the way!

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Posted 29 July 2008 - 08:45 AM

She's had a lot of problems in her life and one of the things I promised her a long time ago was to stick by her no matter what and never abandon her. I keep my promises. But its taking alot out of me.



I've heard that before! Every relationship is different, just like every person is different but I heard the same thing for 3 years as I put up with mood swings, violent outbursts and verbal abuse when she'd had a few drinks. The excuse for this was a troubled past. I took it all in and just like you, stuck by my girlfriend through thick and thin because obviously I was "in love". I helped to improve my ex's life over the time I was with her, she grew stronger and more confident and finally, when she felt strong enough to brave it on her own, I was dumped. How's that for gratitude. She used to beg me not to leave her just like I'm sure your girlfriend does. I know I sound like a broken hearted cynic but my advice is, don't be a mug. I have no idea what your girlfriend has been through and I have no idea how she treats you but don't be a doormat.

However, I know you've already made your decision. You sound like a nice guy so you'll stick it out and hopefully your girlfriend won't throw it back in your face.

I'm seeing someone else now. Someone without any serious mental issues and I'm a whole lot happier.

Good luck mate.




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