do you have 12v at pin 86 brown wire - brown relay coil ?
do you have 0v at pin 85 - brown relay coil ?
Sometimes the pins are reversed, that does not matter, what is important is whether you have both the 12v and 0v feeds.
As the relay outputs work okay (when power is manually added to the relay coil and the fact that pin 86 12v feed comes directly from the relay 12v main supply - pin 30) that you are not getting the 0v from the ecu (green/pink wire)
The green/pink wire goes through pin 12 on X2 the blue plug behind the coolant tank (one half of the loom of doom), you should confirm it is coming from the ecu by tapping into the loom before it reaches the X2 plug from the ecu. This will prove if it's the x2 blue plug or the ecu.
Edited by vocky, 12 April 2015 - 07:25 PM.