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[mart356]

You let her keep your flag? The bitch! You are lucky. 5 years later, Monica Bellucci still hasn't waved my flag, neither has Kylie They don't know what they are missing! Did you watch the blonde Abba stalker thing last night - she shagged her stalker for 2 years... voulez vous? The nutter. It's all relative, she isn't exactly going to shut down the opportunity is she? We all know, old feelings override new ones as they are more formative. gotta get rid of the bluffing for next time, and the guns.

[CupidKnewRap]

who knows she might be underselling her and her boyfs situation

That's what I was trying to suggest, rather badly for me. If she didn't take the split well then she'll have turned you over in her head a lot since then, whatever relationship she's in no matter how good isn't likley to be emphesised unless she was going to show you how good her life was.

Professional help is not the be all and end all of emotions, you can only deal with things enough to put them down for the time being. Given that you went to go see her youv picked it all back up for another examination.

I'm going to stop reading this too or I'll be awake all night thinking.

at mart

Edited by CupidKnewRap, 25 May 2005 - 02:41 PM.

[Richy]

but i think we are going to be able to get on now even better than we did then (we certainly have so far).
in other words:-

can open, worms everywhere!

essentially the best idea i think would be just to say "well it was great seeing you again, but it's probably for the best if i disappear again"

if she wasn't with someone i'd ask her out again like a shot!

what should i do?

You cant re-heat old meat!! my grandfather always used to say

Ive been back with an 'EX' and its great for a while
You always seem to get on better for a few months .......BUT
It all turns back to hate when something you say or do brings up the old *'stupid nasty argument' about something stupid which was the reason for your split in the first place*

If it didnt work first time it will never work the second!

The thing is with EXs ...If they see your doing better or having more fun than they are, then 9 times out of 10 they will want you back! And as soon as they have had you they will spit you back out (pardon the pun )

Its a big game to them and ive seen it done a hundred times to my mates.
She will have you like a puppet on a string and fook your head right up

Plus if she's willing to cheat on her current boyfriend then she's willing to cheat on you again!......... once a cheat always a cheat

Walk away and Leave her where she is mate

*i thought it was great to sleep with her sister after we had finished!...
I cant see what she's mad about !*

Edited by R1CHY, 25 May 2005 - 02:59 PM.

[Kip'n'Srin]

Most of us are thinking about you and putting ourselves in your position and are trying to offer advice that we think will help. You don't have to take it but there are a lot of us thinking that you ought to walk away. As you are ambitious it makes sense that she was jealous of that and tried to split you up from your work/studies. Read through the posts again and you'll see how many people think she is playing with you. All the butterflies and randy thoughts and what you think may be love could hurt you- its not worth it. Let her keep waving the flag and walk away knowing she adores you.

[Kip'n'Srin]

On Your terms!! Good Luck.

[Kip'n'Srin]

A very cunning plan to get WA down the board.Was there really an EX?

[amanda]

Right, Just seen this post & felt a ladies view was needed................hope you don't mind Follow your heart! If you feel there is unfinished buisness then sort it out....BUT! Make sure you enter this situation with caution! Sometimes the past has many fond memories even when it turned out bad, do not go in with both feet, take your time & suss out what you both really want. Do not let yourself get sucked in though, like I say the good memories sometimes haze over the truth because that is what we want to believe at the time. That could apply to both of you. See her a few times & talk openly. Ask her all the questions you want answers too & answer back honestly to the ones she may have. Good luck anyway & do what feels right.........it may hurt you but at least you where true to your heart at the time. You'll just have to take it on the chin like everybody else has too if it doesn't quite work out how we anticipated. I'll shut up now

[Ozzig]

Right, I've had a few now, so my opinion is the best and most uesful Is her bloke bigger than you ? Does he know where you live ? If not see if she's up for a few not too commital [sp?] ,discreet dates, if she goes all bunny boiler - leg it, if it works out I expect an invite with enough notice to buy a new hat. Waste this invaluble advice at your own risk. Can I still edit this tomorrow when I have the sober light of day looming over me ? p.s - last time I asked grown-up advice I'd already made my mind up so ignored it anyway - hence the small yellow Vauxhall Right, back to beer .......... Mmmmmmmmmmm beer

[Kip'n'Srin]

Maybe when you get back with her and you carry on working hard she might have a real affair to get your attention Take it slow,that is all I'm saying.

[Kip'n'Srin]

So can I ask whether you miss her or the sex?

[caleebra]

You are a member of the cast of Brookside and I claim my five pounds.