Is it usually the rear that go? I have changed all mine except one rear which I could not get out. Its on my to do list. Hope the damage is not too bad, they appear to go without any sign.
I had to remove one of the shocks to get enough access to get to one of the bolt heads (well, I say I, I mean the garage

Different properties to 10.9s, you have to look at the shear strengthWhat happens if you use 12.9's instead?
This table shows the differences and they only have axial test figures (which shows them to be much stronger) but no shear test figures
